New Year’s Resolutions: Why They Don’t Last
Whether it’s joining a gym, drinking more water or giving up sweets and/or alcohol, the New Year offers up a clean slate to start afresh.
But whatever New Year’s resolutions you have in mind, I much prefer to think of these goals as small and sustainable lifestyle changes instead.
The problem with New Year’s resolutions
Typically restrictive, unrealistic and hard to maintain, some estimates* claim as many as 80% of people fail to keep up with their New Year’s resolutions come February. While only 8% of us stick to these aspirations all year round.
In my opinion, resolutions are a temporary strategy often built on quick fixes and unattainable expectations.
Whereas lifestyle changes promote an all-encompassing approach to change, addressing a person’s overall well-being by considering not just physical health, but mental, emotional, and sometimes even social and spiritual aspects. This makes them easier to stick to.
Plus, an overwhelming body of scientific evidence suggests that getting into good lifestyle habits can have beneficial impacts on short-term and long-term health.
We all have the power to make change
Despite what the statistics suggest, we all have the power to make change and embrace it. I’ve seen this first-hand after committing to the late Dr Michael Mosley’s The Fast 800 — which isn’t a diet but a way of life. But that’s not to say change is always easy.
One simple parable that helps to illustrate the importance of embracing change is psychologist Spencer Johnson’s book, Who Moved My Cheese?
If you haven’t read it, the story tells the tale of four mice who live in a cheese maze and look for cheese every day to help make them feel happy. Cheese is used as a metaphor for what you want to have in life and the maze is where you search for it.
When the cheese disappears, the mice are either forced to change, or stay in one place. So, I guess the message behind the book is that instead of waiting for the ‘cheese’ to run out, it’s time to take action.
Commit yourself to taking small steps in the right direction
Lifestyle changes don’t have to be big. For example, one small tweak could be you taking the stairs instead of the lift during your days in the office. Or limiting your screen time to 9pm on weekdays. They might sound small, but they can have a big impact.
To measure progress and keep you motivated and inspired along the way, an effective strategy is to make sure your small changes are ‘SMART’ which is the acronym for: Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic and Timely.
That way, when faced with life’s challenges or bouts of stress, you’re less likely to fall back into old habits.
If you would like any more advice on how to commit to positive lifestyle changes, please do get in touch with Robin Kiashek, who is an Osteopath and Autogenic Training practitioner.
*https://time.com/6243642/how-to-keep-new-years-resolutions-2/